

What happened when I resorted to self-honesty…
Once upon a time I was in a relationship for three years. The first half was great. The last half was a slow deterioration that in...


How I Built Up My “Asking” Muscles…
Adventures in Asking… My first real job, where I had any kind of authority, was for a small real estate firm that hired me to be its...


Is It Time To Re-Introduce Yourself?
I just finished Reinventing You by Dorie Clark, which I heard about through a sales and marketing class I took on Lynda.com. (If you...


What It Was Like For Me To "Show Up"
In this January's Outside Your Comfort Zone newsletter, I challenged people to venture outside their comfort zone by practicing "showing...


Wisdom of Washington Irving
I rescued Washington Irving’s collection of short stories, originally titled The Sketch Book, from the risky fate of our library’s...


But Did You Really “Let it go”?
“It’s fine. Really. It doesn’t bother me anymore. It’s not a big deal. Seriously, I’ve let it go.” How many times have we heard someone...


Maybe We Don’t Need Long-Term Goals… but I Could Be Totally Wrong.
I have a confession…or maybe it is just a statement, but if you looked at the rest of my website, you’ll probably agree it is a...
What is the RIGHT age?
Am I old enough? Am I too old? What is the right age? It all seems so arbitrary. Even the age restrictions that are official seem...


How do unlikeable qualities of others show up in you?
I have been spending the last two months revisiting my workbooks from my life coaching training and brushing up on tools and exercises...


Am I responsible for this?
It’s been observed by myself and others that I have a history of taking responsibility for things when it’s not necessary. It can be...